Want to contact a betrayed wife

[Ov1ax]

I will go into more details over private messages, but to keep it short, a colleague is having an affair with another colleague. I want to tell the betrayed wife about this in an anonymous way. I also want to tell her two children (both adults).

The thing is that I don't want the husband to know, so I was thinking of someone who is a PI to deliver a letter directly to her. For the children it can be mailed.

I know the address of the betrayed wife, but nothing about her children. She is from Illinois, don't know where the children live.

Is this a reasonable request and if so, any estimates for costs? Thanks

[Sysop]

Contacting someone's children to advise them of an alleged affair sounds like a particularly unsavoury and petty endeavour.

[Ov1ax]

Contacting someone's children to advise them of an alleged affair sounds like a particularly nasty and petty endeavour.

The betrayed wife has a mental health problem where she has some short-term memory loss. Contacting the children (who are all adults and married themselves) is to make sure she will remember the letter.